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Hindu - a joyous occasion
Even within India, home of the Hindu religion, these wedding celebrations vary greatly. From aspects such as food and clothing to the length of the ceremony, personal preference and family tradition take precedence. The many variations are also based on the choices of the bride and groom of the traditional elements, which hold the most meaning for them. At some Hindu weddings, the festivities can last for several days. Others are shortened for specific reasons, such as a groom who lives in another region or country and is required to return to work (Indian couples who live apart are fairly common due to the dire shortage of employment in that country). Traditionally, the date and time for the marriage ceremony are chosen according to astrological charts, and a typical Hindu wedding takes the form of a joyful and lengthy party rather than a serious and solemn ritual. During the actual ceremony, it is quite acceptable for guests to wander around the temple and socialise, partake of food and drink and seat themselves on the floor. Some of the more common practices at these happy celebrations include a number of symbolic actions and rituals. The bride and groom may exchange garlands of fresh flowers, placing them around each other`s necks. Rather than the Western wedding ring, the bride has a symbolic necklace placed around her neck by the groom, referred to as "tying the knot". For a practicing Hindu, this piece of jewellery is the outward indication to the world that she is a married woman.Before the actual marriage takes place, the father of the bride will first offer her hand to the deities and thereafter to the groom, who assures him that his daughter will be taken care of. At some point in the ceremony, the bride may stand on a stone (which represents firmness and stability) to signify her intention to remain loyal and faithful to her husband. The saptapadi portion of the ceremony involves the couple taking seven steps together, symbolising the steps towards a happy union. With each step, the couple prays for different blessings - wealth, happiness, strength and devotion. At some ceremonies, a priest will officiate over a holy fire which is lit in a sacrificial pit. The couple will then circle this fire (usually seven times) and throw in offerings of rice. Photography by Chris Moore
Article source: LifeWorld
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